All my life I've been hunting for the love and attention I never received? Will I ever be loved?

    Praveen Kumar
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    All my life I've been hunting for the love and attention I never received? Will I ever be loved? People I like rarely reciprocate that feeling and the people who do reciprocate won't last long and leave me in no time. :(

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      • Ivo-12andus founder
        Ivo-12andus founder

        hi Praveen, amazing that in the same day 2 men with a strong Moon both ask a question. I'd say an astrological synchronicities! Longing for love and having a delicate soul is very compatible with your Moon in the 12th house. This position makes you easily reading people's emotions and gives super-sensitive traits.

        Your Moon is in Capricorn in the 12th house and is conjunct to Saturn and Neptune. Those 2 planets "tecnically" are in your 11th house but "energetically" perhaps getting also the 12th house qualities where the Moon is. I understand that you feel that you give a lot but you don't get back as much as you give. The Moon in the 12 house is willing to renounce, to sacrifice for others, and such position shapes a compassionate soul. However, being the Moon in Capricorn, I think there might also be a calculating attitude in your Moon, keeping a sort of accounting of what you give and what you receive.

        Your Venus, the planet of love and sensuality, being in Scorpio and conjunct to Pluto, is a classical position of intense, deep but also possessive love. I wonder if the selfless love channelled by the Moon in the 12th house is then hijacked by the couple Venus/Pluto, wanting to possess and control the object of love. And also stopped at Saturn checkpoint with his judging character.

        What can we take from such astrological positions? You have the potentiality to give and receive deep, intense and unconditional love, I would even say mystical love. What will help you to reach it in the best way is expanding your awareness by becoming aware the moment you tend to lose yourself in giving, becoming also aware when you tend to feel not reciprocated, and being aware when you start clinging to the person.

        In the last months Saturn is transiting between your natal Sun and your natal Saturn. It's a time of deep reflection about the meaning of life and might give you some melanchonic feelings. You'll pass this as more mature and aware. Saturn transits on natal Saturn for each person at around 28-29 years old and represents a big transformation toward adulthood conveying a sense of reality.