As Lilith transits through Scorpio, forming a square with your composite Mars in Virgo, expect some definite intensifications in the dynamics of your relationship. This cosmic alignment stirs deep, sometimes hidden or suppressed, energies that can significantly impact how you relate to one another, particularly in terms of asserting yourselves and dealing with conflicts.

Lilith's energy in Scorpio is raw and transformative. It delves into the unsaid or the forbidden realms of your partnership, creating a powerful draw towards what you might usually shy away from. These can include taboos, secrets, or deeper psychological truths. The influence of Scorpio adds a strong desire for emotional depth, authenticity, and control. This might bring up issues related to jealousy, manipulation, or the struggle for power between you.

Meanwhile, Mars in Virgo strives for order and precision. It deals with the finer details of how you serve and support each other. The Virgo influence means you typically prefer to handle conflicts logically and practically. However, the square from Lilith introduces a tension that challenges this norm. You might find that the usual practical and straightforward approach to tackling issues might not work as effectively. There's a push to confront the messier, chaotic parts of your relationship dynamics that you usually avoid or manage systematically.

Imagine a scenario where one of you discovers hidden messages from a past lover on the other's phone. The discovery could trigger a crisis, dredging up deep-seated insecurities or trust issues (Scorpio), while the urge to analyze every detail and perhaps criticize or fix things immediately (Virgo) might not address the underlying emotional betrayal and the need for transformative healing.

During this period, it's beneficial to embrace the uncomfortable or shadowy sides of your relationship. It's a potent time for transformation, allowing both of you to grow closer through understanding and integrating these intense energies. Channeling this tension into constructive dialogue can help transcend the challenges, fostering a deeper bond and mutual understanding.

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