As Lilith transits through Sagittarius, forming a quincunx aspect with your composite Ascendant in Aries, you may find yourselves navigating a period of intense, dynamic change within your relationship. This particular alignment challenges you to confront and reconcile differences in your fundamental beliefs and life philosophies.

Lilith's energy in Sagittarius stirs deep-seated quests for meaning and truth in both of your lives. There is a strong desire to break free from restricting ideologies or moral imperatives that no longer serve your joint path. Such explorations, however, can provoke discomfort as you may discover not all your beliefs align perfectly with each other.

The quincunx to the Ascendant in Aries adds a layer of urgency and maybe even a touch of conflict to these revelations. Aries, a sign ruled by Mars, encourages directness and pioneering spirit but can also become confrontational without careful handling. The energy here is that of adjustment; finding a way to assert your individual truths in ways that nurture the relationship's growth rather than hindering it.

You might experience moments where one or both of you feels an instinctual pull to take immediate action on these philosophical discoveries, whether that be changing a life path, adopting a new belief system, or even reshaping your relationship's structure. It's crucial during this time to practice patience and understanding. Recognize that these revelations and changes are necessary for the evolution of your relationship.

This transit is also an opportunity to enhance your awareness of each other's needs and expectations without judgment. Embracing the lessons and changes brought about by Lilith can ultimately lead to a deepening of your bond, as you learn to love not just the easy parts of each other but also the complex, shadowy sides that Lilith illuminates.

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