As Lilith conjuncts your composite Saturn in the signs of Capricorn and Aquarius, you're stepping into a phase where your relationship may face some serious grounding tests - and no, it's not just another season of your favorite "let's see how weird and wild things can get" reality show. Lilith's energy in Capricorn harnesses an assertive, if not raw, urge to break free from traditional paths, pushing you both to challenge the very foundations upon which your relationship stands.

With Saturn's influence, disciplined Aquarius ups the ante on structure, commitment, and responsibility. Think of it as your relationship's quarterly review, where you're asked to reevaluate your mutual goals and commitments. Are they innovative enough to sustain the unique dynamics between you? Are they stringent enough to enforce the seriousness you've committed to?

During this transit, power struggles could become more apparent but think of this as an opportunity to really negotiate where you both stand on important issues. This isn't about conceding to peace at any cost but finding a true balance-kind of like deciding on a Netflix series that satisfies both without resulting in the third re-watch of a show neither of you enjoys but won't admit.

Moreover, Lilith's rebellious streak could urge you to confront and possibly rewrite some of the outdated "rules" in your relationship. Why follow a guidebook written for another duo when you can draft your own? Embrace the authenticity of your combined peculiarities. It might be messy, like trying to bake a soufflé in a microwave, but it's your mess.

As this transit unfolds, watch for the tendency to be overly critical or cold. Saturn might push for a seriousness that feels as comforting as a concrete pillow, and Lilith might urge you to ignore important boundaries. Strive for balance-neither completely forsaking structure nor rebelling against every rule. The progress you achieve together during this period can bring lasting stability and a renewed sense of respect for one another's deepest needs and honest expressions.

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