When Lilith transits through Capricorn, squaring Mars in Virgo within your composite chart, brace yourselves for a cosmic tug of war between the rebel and the perfectionist. Provided of course, you're not too busy organizing your spice rack or restructuring your filing system to notice the celestial drama unfolding!

This transit stirs up the mud settled neatly at the bottom of your partnership's serene lake. Lilith is all about bringing the underbelly of issues to the surface, questioning the status quo, and poking at the power dynamics in your relationship. In Capricorn, her provocative energy is channeled through your drive for structure and achievement. Consider this the universe's not-so-subtle hint to examine where your joint ambitions may be clouding your ethical or emotional judgment. Are you cutting corners emotionally for the sake of a pristine, Instagram-worthy facade?

Conversely, Mars in Virgo brings a meticulous energy to your actions as a pair. Here, Mars isn't just about action; it's precision-action. This might typically manifest as directing a lot of your energy towards optimizing each nuanced aspect of your lives together: from perfect calendar synchronization to the optimal division of household chores. Quite the thrilling existence, isn't it?

However, with Lilith squaring Mars, your methods to ensure 'perfect harmony' may come under scrutiny. Lilith questions if perfection is indeed liberating, or if it's just another chain. Beware of your criticism turning overly nit-picky or judgmental- it's possible for one or both of you to feel as though nothing they do is right, leading to frustrations.

The trick here is finding balance. Blend Lilith's call for authenticity and autonomy with Mars' ability to strategize and systematize. Embrace the chaos Lilith brings but apply Mars' detailed-oriented approach to navigate it. This isn't the ideal time to aim for flawless execution. Instead, aim for honest expressions and see how even in imperfection, your partnership can not only survive but thrive.

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