As Lilith transits through Capricorn, forming a square with your composite Saturn in Libra, it can feel a bit like a cosmic HR department-always keeping an eye on whether your relationship's structure is strong or just made of smoke and mirrors. This time may bring about a series of bureaucratic love tests. Will you pass?

Lilith's energy, often synonymous with the untamed and the wild, collides with Saturn, the planet of discipline and authority. During this square, you might find that each partner digs in their heels, perhaps suddenly irritated by the other's core beliefs or usual manner of doing things. Capricorn's influence here insists on structure and realness. This isn't the best time for sugarcoating realities; instead, the focus shifts to what's solid, practical, and sometimes stark.

Imagine you're preparing a meal together. One of you insists on following the recipe to the letter (that's Saturn talking), while the other wants to improvise with a dash of this or a sprinkle of that (hello, Lilith!). The kitchen becomes a battleground not just of flavors but of fundamental approaches to life - one structured, the other spontaneous. It's not just about the dish but how you're concocting it together that can lead to feelings of being restricted or misunderstood.

During this transit, it's vital to negotiate terms. Perhaps establish ground rules in areas where you feel boundaries are being pushed too far. Communication is crucial! You both need to articulate your values and understand how they can coexist or even complement each other without compromising your integrity.

Utilize this dynamic albeit challenging period to redefine and solidify the foundations of your relationship. Not every storm comes to disrupt your life, some come to clear your path. This may be the perfect opportunity to tackle underlying issues that have been swept under the rug for too long. Embrace the challenge; you might just find a new way to relate that is both respectful of each partner's independence and supportive of your union.

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