With Lilith transiting in Capricorn squaring your composite Ascendant in Virgo, you are entering a period where fundamental lessons about power, authenticity, and acceptance become central to your journey together. This transit can often bring darkness to light, primarily focusing on the ways you, as a couple, handle responsibility, structure, and criticism.

Lilith's fiery energy in steadfast Capricorn challenges your relationship's usual modus operandi, as represented by your Virgo Ascendant. You might find yourselves facing issues related to control and dominance, which could manifest in professional environments or in the dynamics you hold within your relationship structure. For example, one or both of you might encounter a demanding career situation that tests your ability to support each other, perhaps challenging the practical, service-oriented nature of your partnership.

The square aspect typically signals tension that needs action. You are called to confront aspects of your relationship where perhaps there has been too much criticism or too rigid an approach to helping each other grow. This period demands that you reassess how you implement discipline and order in your relationship, ensuring you are not suppressing vital aspects of each other's personalities or the relationship itself.

This transit can also serve as a potent reminder of the need to embrace each other's flaws rather than attempting to 'fix' them. Lilith in Capricorn pushes for victory and achievement but remember that real progress in your relationship might actually come through embracing vulnerability and the elements of your bond that aren't so easily controlled or changed.

Amid these challenges, this transit also offers the potential for significant growth. By navigating these stormy waters together, you stand to deepen your understanding and solidify your commitment, learning that true strength in your relationship comes from facing the dark together and emerging united.

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