With Lilith transiting in Aquarius forming a square to your composite Mars in Gemini, your relationship is entering a period characterized by a dynamic tension between the need for independence and a restless energy towards communication. Lilith's influence in Aquarius drives a desire for freedom and breaking from conventional norms, while Mars in Gemini stirs an active, sometimes aggressive communication style. This combination might lead to conflicts as both of you might insist on expressing your uniqueness and independence, possibly overlooking the importance of mutual understanding.

During this transit, you may find that disagreements are not just frequent but also more intense. These disagreements, however, are not just simple arguments but are deeply connected to core issues in the relationship. The square aspect can induce friction that compels both of you to address these underlying issues, possibly relating to how freedom and independence are expressed within the bounds of your relationship.

Moreover, Lilith's energy can bring to surface any feelings of resentment that have been lingering unacknowledged or suppressed. Mars in Gemini, wanting to clear the air, might push for these issues to be discussed, perhaps in a manner that is too direct or hurried. It's essential during this time to find a balance in how you communicate these deeper, possibly uncomfortable topics. Listening becomes just as important as speaking.

This transit is not just about challenges; it also offers an opportunity for growth. By navigating through these tensions, there is potential for both of you to emerge with a deeper understanding of each other's needs for autonomy and the ways in which you communicate affection and disagreement. Harnessing this energy constructively could lead to strengthening your bond, making your relationship resilient and more attuned to each of your individual identities yet functioning cohesively as a unit.

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