With Lilith transiting in Aquarius forming a quincunx to your composite Pluto in Virgo, your relationship is entering a period marked by profound, if somewhat uncomfortable, transformations. This transit pushes for the unveiling of hidden issues or dysfunctional dynamics that you may have been avoiding or suppressing within the bounds of your relationship.

Lilith's energy in Aquarius stirs a desire for freedom and unconventionality, which can create tension with Pluto's deep-seated need for control and security in Virgo. You might find yourselves confronting themes around independence versus intimacy. These moments may surface through sudden insights or unexpected events that challenge your usual way of interacting. The key here is to address these issues directly rather than letting them fester.

The quincunx aspect demands adjustment. In your case, blending Aquarian innovation with Virgoan attention to detail can help. It's about finding a balance where you can both honor your need for personal space and uniqueness while nurturing the practical aspects of your partnership. This might mean integrating new routines or behaviors that respect both of your needs for growth and stability.

Additionally, this transit could highlight areas where your relationship might be contributing to a sense of oppression or restriction for one or both of you. Lilith is often where we confront the 'shadow' side of our desires, and with Pluto involved, these revelations can be powerful and transforming. Embrace the discomfort as it arises, as it is often in these challenging moments that the most significant growth occurs.

Together, reassess and realign. It is an excellent time for honest communication about your ideals, dreams, and the less visible dimensions of your relationship. Work on creating a safe space for both of you to express these more radical or unexplored aspects of your selves and your union.

Navigating this transit might not be easy, but it holds the potential for profound personal and relational evolution.

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