As Pholus transits Scorpio, conjuncting your composite Lilith in Libra, you are navigating a profound period of transformation within your relationship. This transit illuminates deep-seated patterns and possibly taboo or hidden aspects of your connection that are now clamoring for attention and resolution.

The presence of Pholus in Scorpio intensifies experiences and emotions, pushing you both to confront issues that you might have previously swept under the rug. This could relate to power dynamics, intimacy, or secrets that have not yet been shared. The piercing energy of Scorpio urges honesty and deep diving into the emotional waters that might have been too turbulent to navigate before.

Meanwhile, Lilith in Libra in your composite chart seeks harmony and fairness but also highlights where you feel shortchanged or where resentment might be lurking due to perceived injustices or imbalances in the relationship. Lilith's energy can provoke a sense of rebellion or a desire to break free from where you feel restricted or unfairly treated, whether these feelings are acknowledged openly or simmer beneath the surface.

Consider a scenario where one of you has always compromised more, adjusting your own needs to maintain an appearance of peace and balance typical of Libra. As Pholus aligns with Lilith, the less vocal partner might suddenly find the courage to voice their discontent, possibly bringing suppressed frustrations to the forefront. This might be triggered by a specific event where one person's patience snaps, revealing the deeper, perhaps darker emotions at play.

This phase, though potentially challenging, offers a powerful opportunity for healing and transformation. It invites you to face what is imperfect and unsettling in your relationship, to discuss openly what you usually avoid, and ultimately, to find a deeper sense of emotional honesty and intimacy. By confronting these shadows together, you can pave the way for a renewed and more genuine connection, one where hidden resentments are replaced by understood and respected boundaries and needs.

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