Pluto and Lilith aspects in the Synastry Chart: How do you empower the unconscious desire to heal?

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    Pluto-Lilith-Harm.jpg Pluto and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart

    This is a powerful combination in which each party is on the same level and understands each others’ intensity.

    Pluto person appreciates Lilith person's tendency toward self-determinism and independence. Pluto person's sense of power and intensity is mirrored in Lilith person's style. Neither sees the other as ‘too negative’ as even the edgy and obsessive side of each is perceived as completely normal to the other.

    There is a familiar feeling each has in the others’ intensity and dramatic emotional ups and downs.

    Lilith person sees Pluto person as a wise authority who is self-possessed but will not consider Pluto person to be a challenge to their own sense of authority and freedom.

    Pluto trine, sextile or semi-sextile Lilith in the synastry chart

    Both Lilith person and Pluto person can help each other transform during times of crisis and find their inner power.

    Pluto person embodies confidence and gives Lilith person permission to be true to themselves and honor their raw instincts. Pluto person is focused and obsessive, desiring the truth no matter how uncomfortable it is.

    Lilith person looks to Pluto person as a guide when it comes to dramatic transformation and personal rebirth. Lilith person appreciates Pluto person's experience walking through darkness and emerging transformed. Lilith person also appreciates that Pluto person's style is to recognize the intensity of deep transformation without having to micro-manage it.

    Pluto opposite, square or semi-square Lilith in the synastry chart

    The intensity and drama in this pairing can be exciting but also exhausting for both.

    Their sexuality and shared passionate energy can break boundaries and it can be like fireworks being set off when these two clash.

    At the same time, though, they can end up doing battle more than channeling their passions in productive ways.

    Pluto person is intrigued by Lilith person's raw emotion and drawn to the obvious wounds Lilith person carries. Lilith person is not comforted by this attraction though. She may see Pluto person's attention from the perspective of a swimmer sensing a shark nearby.

    Even when Pluto person's intentions are good, Lilith person is too accustomed to disappointment and control struggles to believe that. Especially because Pluto person has such intense energy and a dominating personality.

    Pluto person will be fascinated by Lilith person's energy and passion but will grow frustrated trying to chase Lilith person or will be insulted when Lilith person doesn’t take Pluto person's attempts to help them see their potential to create deeper transformation as a serious attempt to be an ally.

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