Venus and Pholus aspects in the Birth Chart: How are your relationships impacted by major life turning points?

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    Venus-Pholus-Conj.jpg Venus conjunct Pholus in the birth chart

    Your relationships are a source of strength and consistency during major life turning points.

    Even cataclysmic events can help me to overall improve your relationships and connections to others. You can easily connect with others on a deeper level and when you have to go through dramatic life changes and crises outside of your control, you can easily find the support you need to maintain security.

    You may even have breakthroughs that help your relationships transform and advance even in the midst of challenges and crises. You may have illusions regarding love and romance shattered by cataclysmic events and major turning points.

    Yet even when this happens you can find it easy to anchor yourself in your role in relationships. You may try to protect others or overestimate the potential for love to conquer all.

    Even if it isn’t enough to mitigate the impact of the major turning point, you will nonetheless be able to thrive in spite of these major changes.

    Venus sextile Pholus in the birth chart

    You can easily draw on your material and emotional security to navigate through challenging times.

    Even when faced with unexpected catastrophic events, you can draw on the support you find from friends and loved ones to help work through unexpected changes. Your connections to a lover or friends may also create small changes that have dramatic consequences, altering the course of your life.

    This may seem dramatic, yet you will usually find positive ramifications in the long run. You may find it easier to embrace changes and unexpected crises. You may overestimate your ability to cope with dramatic twists and turns.

    Even so, your protective and empathic nature will help you leverage your social supports to turn challenges into breakthroughs.

    Venus square Pholus in the birth chart

    You may find it challenging to preserve your relationships during times of crisis.

    Small steps and seemingly inconsequential choices influenced by partners or relationships, can have dramatic ramifications in the long term. A connection to a partner or love interest can lead you to experience major turning points that change the course of your life.

    You may struggle with hardships brought about by your relationship choices. These challenges can unleash dramatic events and issues. From these issues you may learn how you have been overestimating yourself or your role in relationships.

    Eventually you can find ways to create security and loving connections to others but you may have to gain a new perspective and overcome toxic relationships patterns first.

    Venus trine Pholus in the birth chart

    You may find it easy to express your love and nurture your connections to those you care about even as you experience dramatic life changes.

    Life changing events that alter the course of your path can be set into motion because of your romantic partnerships or connections to those you love. Even cataclysmic events can ultimately benefit you or lead to deeper love and security.

    You may have to face the ways in which you overestimate your ability to save others or face patterns of codependency in toxic relationships so that you can heal and break through these patterns.

    Dramatic changes brought about by small steps or seemingly innocent encounters can have wide ranging consequences in your life.

    Relationships and partnerships can be a big part of shifting your perspective, leading you to embrace your connection to others who support and validate you even as you go through major life turning points.

    Venus opposite Pholus in the birth chart

    You may feel torn between your desire to explore sensuality, love and romance and the need to deal with pivotal, dramatic events.

    You may find it hard to get your bearings and find a deeper sense of security as the goal posts shift every time you start to feel comfortable. In large part, this is because of unexpected turning points or unforeseen catastrophes with which you have to deal.

    Your relationships or desire for love may lead you to misconstrue your ability to handle unforeseen crises. You may not recognize a threat to your security or may fall for partners or friends who are not going to support you in the way you expected when a crisis hits.

    You may have to work to overcome fears and insecurities so that you can find your grounding, security and self-worth in the midst of dramatic changes and challenges.

    Venus quincunx Pholus in the birth chart

    You may find it difficult to work through patterns of codependency and toxic relationships until dramatic crises and challenges awaken you to these patterns.

    When this happens, you can recognize the insecurities and fears that lead you to overestimate your relationships or misjudge your risk in toxic friendships or partnerships. When you work through these insecurities, you’ll be better suited to deal with dramatic, life altering events brought about by changes in your relationships.

    You may be better able to protect yourself, set boundaries and manage crises involving your partners or loved ones.

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