Saturn and Eros aspects in the Synastry Chart: How does practicality and restrictions influence your arousal in the relationship?

    By 12andus

    Saturn-Eros-Conj.jpg Saturn and Eros conjunct in the synastry chart

    Though it may seem counterintuitive, you both find greater arousal when you have to work for the connection.

    Restriction, discipline, limitations and absence can make the heart grow fonder. You can become more infatuated with each other when you have to struggle for the relationship. Saturn person brings practicality and may face some restrictions to exploring their relationship with Eros person at first.

    Eros person may be infatuated by Saturn person's hard working nature. However, Eros person also may have fetishes or fantasies involving restriction, restraint, challenges or discipline and Saturn person's nature plays into this well.

    Saturn person learns from Eros person how to open up and express their sensual nature albeit in practical ways. Both are likely to enjoy a very physical relationship.

    Saturn trine, sextile or semi-sextile Eros in the synastry chart

    You may both have a strong attraction to each other and easily arouse each other’s desires.

    Saturn person may be traditional or restrictive in some ways but rather than discouraging Eros person, their nature actually further entices Eros person. Eros person may find Saturn person's practicality, serious nature or maturity to be arousing and exciting.

    Saturn person may easily overlook their sensual nature, but is reminded of their need to explore and enjoy intimacy and sexual connection because of their connection to Eros person.

    You can both draw on your practical sensual nature to balance out Eros person's hedonism and Saturn person's fixation on work and discipline.

    Saturn opposite, square or semi-square Eros in the synastry chart

    You may find it difficult to create a lasting intimate bond.

    Eros person needs sensual connection and wants to explore pleasure and fantasies while Saturn person is practical and often busy working or tending to details of their life that don’t involve sex or pleasure.

    It can take some effort, but it is possible for Saturn person to take a cue from Eros person and open up to channeling their practical and rational energy in more erotic and sexual ways. It is also possible for Eros person to find a balance between their pleasure seeking nature and their need to occasionally practice restraint.

    If Eros person can come to appreciate Saturn person's boundaries, and Saturn person can come to appreciate Eros person's need for erotic connection, both can find satisfaction in the relationship.

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