Composite Lilith in Aries

The two of you can trigger each other’s passions and also short circuit each other’s rage response.

If you’ve been suppressing aspects of your identity in order to fit in or please each other, it will be short lived. It won’t be long before you both become resentful and angry.

This relationship can bring passion and intensity into your sex life, but you’ll need to be honest with yourselves and with each other. You don’t tolerate any deception.

Your insecurities can also easily be triggered in this relationship, especially when it comes to jealousy over past partners or fear of betrayal.

You may battle for power in the relationship, yet the tension created can lead the two of you to become more passionate or experiment sexually. You may compete with each other to try to gain control in the relationship.

This can undermine your connection. Yet it can also motivate the two of you to break limitations and fight for what you deserve.

Composite Lilith in Taurus

You lead each other to rebel against materialism and sexual constraints related to beauty and appearances.

You may redefine sexual attractiveness and chemistry in this relationship. You both may have issues trusting each other, and may become angry or rebellious when the relationship becomes too comfortable.

If either of you tries to use money or materialism to seduce the other, it will only backfire. You both need to feel a genuine sense of security in the relationship and you see through superficial attempts at seduction or attraction.

You may seek comfort in possessiveness and may try to control each other or manipulate each other through triggering jealous reactions.

This can create a tumultuous relationship where you look for solid evidence of each other’s attraction but also rebel against the attempts each partner makes to prove their love.

Composite Lilith in Gemini

The two of you may be suspicious of attempts at verbal seduction. You may both crave and resent sweet talking in the relationship.

You both know how to talk your way into each other’s hearts, but because you individually know how to get your way using your wit and diplomacy, you also second guess each other’s sincerity.

You look to each other to find reassurance, excitement and positive encouragement yet you may also rebel against each other’s ideas and communication.

When it comes to sexuality, you both want to try to keep a distance. You may flirt openly with each other and then go cold when things start to get serious.

You both fear the other having too much control or influence over your mind, attitudes, and circle of friends.

Composite Lilith in Cancer

You may subconsciously take turns setting each other up to be aggressive so that you can gain sympathy and pity from others.

You may also both fall into a pattern of submissiveness followed by outrage. Recognize what aspects of this relationship repeat cycles you learned from your relationship with a parent or early caregiver.

This relationship can bring to the surface issues you both have with control and domination from rigid family rules or early childhood traumas.

You can help each other establish power and confidence in yourself, especially in family relationships, yet this can be a stormy relationships.

You both are tempted to emotionally manipulate each other in order to create a dependent relationship.

You may also feel that your partner is treating you like a child or subjecting you to the same type of control or limitations you experienced as a child.

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