Venus in Taurus and Mars in Virgo in the birth chart

Venus in Taurus with Mars in a fellow earth sign of Virgo creates a slow and cautious path to expressing romance and sexual passion.

You are committed to finding love for the long haul and are too discerning to care about one night stands or short affairs. You can also be cautious in both love and sex.

Others may say you’re picky, but the truth is you have high standards. You know what you want and you’re not willing to compromise your desires for the sake of romance ro sex.

You can be affectionate and nurturing in your romantic relationships. When it comes to sex, however, you’re more likely to be focused on pleasing your partner as efficiently and pragmatically as possible.

You pay close attention to sexual hygiene and have high standards in the bedroom. You aren’t interested in kinky sex usually, though you are observant.

When it comes to sex, you can become analytical and will try to notice all the small details that bring pleasure to your partner.

When you see that a specific technique is working, you’ll try to refine your sexual expression down to a science. Thus, in bed you are more strategic than impulsive or emotional.

You approach sex with curiosity and intellect rather than getting carried away with feelings. Most would say you never really let yourself lose control and this is true.

In love you keep a calm exterior and are often a sounding board for your partner. In sex you can be receptive to your partner taking the lead but you don’t let your guard down completely.

You can be modest as well and your attraction and seduction style involves showing others a classic romantic energy rather than being too revealing or uninhibited.

Venus in Taurus square Mars in Virgo in the birth chart

Venus in Taurus square Mars in Virgo creates friction and tension in your romantic relationships.

The type of romance you crave is not easily aligned with your style of expressing your sexuality. You may be inclined to show your love with open displays of affection and attention paid to your partner, yet when it comes to sex you may seem aloof.

You’re more intellectual about sex and may even have a lower than average sex drive. The idea of sex may turn you on more than the actual physical act and you may view sex as something to be done with efficiency rather than passion.

Yet if you can find motivation to explore your curiosities and fantasies through sexual experimentation, you can have a more open and affectionate relationship without restricting your desires.

Rarity of this aspect: Somehow rare

Venus in Taurus trine Mars in Virgo in the birth chart

Venus in Taurus trine Mars in Virgo aligns the earthy nature of your romance style with your sexual expression.

You are practical both in love and in sexuality. Your partner doesn’t have to read between the lines, you make your intentions known clearly. You have strong boundaries and can seem hard to please, but this is not the case.

You just understand your worth and aren’t interested in dating or short-term affairs. You take both love and sex seriously. You can be discerning when choosing a partner and expect respect both in love and in the bedroom.

You aren’t usually the one to initiate, instead preferring to remain in control while taking slow and subtle steps to set the foundation in love and sex. You are turned off by partners who are too forthcoming but you do expect honesty and transparency.

Rarity of this aspect: Somehow rare

As a 12andus user, you can discover your Venus and Mars combination in the "Venus Love readings" box of the Reports page.