Venus in Gemini and Mars in Cancer in the birth chart

Venus in Gemini and Mars in Cancer gives you a playful nature in romance with a deep desire for emotional connection in the bedroom.

You are attracted to people who are charming, intelligent, interesting and complex. Your style of seducing a partner involves leaning on verbal communication.

Your love life is based on the idea that you and your partner are friends and companions. Sometimes it may even seem as if you treat your partner more like a friend than a romantic interest.

When it comes to sexual expression, your emotional and sensitive side comes out. You become vulnerable and submissive in bed. Though you love to flirt and can be lighthearted and fun in romance, sex brings out your emotional nature.

You may need plenty of foreplay and time to warm up in bed. You also may seem to flirt with everyone but when it comes to sex, you only have eyes for your partner. You crave this level of attention and reassurance as well.

You are aroused by a partner who helps you to feel secure. You need to feel nurtured and stable in sexual relationships. You may be generous with your affection and adoration as well.

In fact, you can be so sensitive in the bedroom that you may unintentionally interpret your partner’s slightest change of behavior as rejection or criticism. Your ideal partner understands your emotional ups and downs and knows to take their time and respond to your moods.

Your intimate life is also ruled by your intuition and feelings. When you’re feeling secure and admired, you can be an adventurous and attentive lover. But if your feelings are hurt, you won’t be in the mood until the underlying issues are resolved.

You can be outgoing and social in love. Yet when it comes to sexual intimacy, you can be sentimental and shy. You need a partner who knows how to help you ease into being more adventurous and open to exploring.

Venus in Gemini conjunct Mars in Cancer in the birth chart

Venus in Gemini conjunct Mars in Cancer amplifies the energy of romantic flirtation and emotional connection in love and sexuality.

You are attracted to people who are witty, flirtatious and fun. You can be playful and charming when you’re in love. As much as you appear casual in romance, you can also be intense in the bedroom.

When it comes to sex and intimacy, you are nurturing and intuitive. You have a keen sense of how to help your partner let their guard down and show vulnerability in the bedroom.

You crave intimacy that is based in emotional connection. You can also be devoted, loyal and affectionate.

Rarity of this aspect: Somehow rare

Venus in Gemini sextile Mars in Cancer in the birth chart

Your shifting moods don’t cause chaos and confusion in romance and sexuality.

This is because your Venus in Gemini is in a comfortable sextile with Mars in Cancer. Even though your interests and appetites may seem paradoxical, they’re actually not.

You can flow from an emphasis on intellectual connection in love to emotional connection in the bedroom. You can also be nurturing or frisky, depending on your mood.

Even though your sexual style is driven by emotions, you are always sure to be protective and caring, showing your sensitivity and love for your partner through intimacy while also reassuring them of your love with your romantic eloquence.

Rarity of this aspect: Very rare

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