Venus in Gemini and Mars in Virgo in the birth chart

With Venus in Gemini and Mars in Virgo, your style of expressing love differs from your sexual nature.

In love and romance, you are playful, energetic and flirtatious. You are attracted to a partner who is intelligent, expressive and interesting. You want to be able to learn from your partner.

You can become bored easily in love and it may be difficult for you to make a commitment because you fear missing out if your options become limited. You may often be attracted to two people at a time.

Even in romance you need variety. Your ideal partner is someone who can keep you engaged intellectually by sharing new interests and teaching you new things.

When it comes to sex and intimacy, you are much slower to open up. You have strong boundaries regarding sex and may take a cautious and methodical approach.

This contrasts with your open and expressive nature in romance. When you’re in love you can be adaptable and influenced by your partner. You can see number sides of a situation.

But in the bedroom, you are more concrete about what you desire. You may be direct and honest but not overly emotionally expressive.

You are likely to stick with the techniques and positions you like. Kinky experimentation isn’t your style in bed. You prefer consistency and repetition.

You notice every detail about what your partner responds to in bed and you’ll be diligent about trying to ensure your partner experiences pleasure and satisfaction. You can be a selfless lover as long as your partner respects your boundaries.

Venus in Gemini sextile Mars in Virgo in the birth chart

Venus in Gemini sextile Mars in Virgo easily aligns your romantic and sexual expression styles.

You can be flirty and outgoing in romance and this feeds in to your eagerness to please your partner in bed.

Though you can be creative and adaptable in love, when it comes to sex you are practical and down to earth. Your sexual style is sensual and you may study your partner to learn their interests in bed.

It’s easy for you to seduce your love interest through the strength of your intellect and ability to connect with your partner through shared interest.

Rarity of this aspect: Rare

Venus in Gemini square Mars in Virgo in the birth chart

Venus in Gemini square Mars in Virgo creates friction between your romantic style and your sexual nature.

You approach love with playfulness and charm. You can be flirty and fun to be with as a partner. Yet your adaptive, flexible nature doesn’t easily extend into your sexual expression style.

In bed your nature is more measured and conservative. You aren’t one to experiment or to push boundaries. With some effort, however, you can bring your creativity and adaptable nature into your intimate encounters.

You can learn to align your intellectual seduction style with your tendency to be analytical and strategic in bed. Over time, you can expand into new routines and take risks to explore pleasure and intimacy.

Rarity of this aspect: Average

Venus in Gemini trine Mars in Virgo in the birth chart

Venus in Gemini trine Mars in Virgo brings out the best of your seductive, romantic, and sexual nature.

Your playful and charming style in romance can easily align with your strategic style in the bedroom. Though you can be analytical in the bedroom, you find diplomatic ways to express your boundaries without sounding critical.

Your seduction style involves plenty of pillow talk and sexting, and you are aroused by practical routines associated with sexual intimacy.

You may not have as broad a repertoire in bed as you do in other areas of your romance but consistency helps you to feel secure and comfortable with your partner.

Rarity of this aspect: Rare

As a 12andus user, you can discover your Venus and Mars combination in the "Venus Love readings" box of the Reports page.