Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aquarius in the birth chart

Venus in Gemini with Mars in Aquarius brings a combination of charm and eccentricity to your romance and sex life.

You are attracted to partners who are unique, witty, interesting and who can teach you something new and stimulate your mind. You can also find romance that begins as a friendship.

When you’re in love, you may treat your partner similar to your friends, with the exception of wanting to spend more time together. You seek a companion to explore your interests with.

You aren’t overly sentimental and prefer exciting conversations to public displays of affection. Yet you do bring creativity and words of love and admiration into your romantic relationships.

When it comes to sex, you look for a partner with shared chemistry. You are often intuitive about your sexual pursuits and may not know exactly why you’re attracted to certain people. You have difficulty with monogamy because you don’t like your options to be limited.

For you to be aroused, there needs to be something unique and even taboo about your sexual relationship. You love to break with tradition and push the boundaries in the bedroom.

You crave experimentation and have a kinky side. Traditional sex or sexual experiences that are too routine will bore you. You need to feel as if you are breaking barriers in the bedroom.

You can also be aroused by the idea of a sexual experience more so than the actual sexual experience. You may have affectionate moods but generally are independent enough that you don’t want to feel smothered in the bedroom.

Your desire for change and stimulation in both romance and sex can lead you to an interest in polyamory or open relationships.

Venus in Gemini square Mars in Aquarius in the birth chart

Venus in Gemini square Mars in Aquarius brings tension between your romantic and sexual nature.

Yet this tension is also a source of motivation. You may prefer to be independent and shy away from intimacy, yet your romantic fantasies and desires can compel you to explore sexual interests.

You are also likely to be motivated to discover new and innovative ways to bring pleasure into your relationships. You aren’t restricted by romantic conventions and may be open to casual sexual relationships as well.

You can come to align your romantic desires and sexual interests with some effort. You may have to overcome inhibitions or social expectations to really embrace your sexual and romantic desires.

Rarity of this aspect: Somehow rare

Venus in Gemini trine Mars in Aquarius in the birth chart

Venus in Gemini trine Mars in Aquarius easily aligns your romantic and sexual interests.

You are intellectual in your approach to both love, seduction, and sex. You are also independent and need space in your relationships. A long-distance relationship would work well for you.

You may also seek partners who travel frequently as this appeals to your need for space vacillating with interest in intimacy. You may approach sexuality as if you are studying and finding ways to innovate and improve on the pursuit of pleasure.

Though you aren’t overtly emotional in bed, you are also not one to seek a smothering or affectionate partner, so your romantic and sexual nature support a partner who is equally curious and independent.

You crave experimentation in the bedroom and your inquisitive and intellectual nature in love aligns well with this.

Rarity of this aspect: Average

Venus in Gemini quincunx Mars in Aquarius in the birth chart

Venus in Aquarius quincunx Mars in Aquarius creates friction between your style of romance and sexuality.

You crave companionship in a romantic partner but sexually you may be independent and aloof, and this can send mixed signals to your potential love interest.

It may take time and experience, but you can grow to align your sexual and romantic nature. Your seduction style may involve pillow talk and words of romance, though in bed you may seem detached.

You approach sex as if you are experimenting with pleasure not emotional connection. It may take some effort to learn ways to maintain a connection to your partner that is sentimental and reciprocal.

You may also vacillate between wanting companionship and wanting time alone. You can struggle with commitment to one person and may need to adapt your desires to your romantic pursuits.

Rarity of this aspect: Rare

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