With Mercury in Aries, you possess a mind that's as quick as a hare and as sharp as a tack. You're a straight shooter, preferring to cut through the fluff and get to the point. Your communication style is direct, assertive, and at times, impulsive. Now, there's Lilith in Cancer, an entirely different beast. This placement speaks to your emotional resilience. Lilith in Cancer grants you an intuitive understanding of people's needs, and you're not afraid to use this to your advantage. You're also fiercely protective of your emotional space and won't hesitate to put up walls when threatened.

When Mercury in Aries squares Lilith in Cancer, it creates an interesting dynamic. Your straightforward communication style, courtesy of Mercury in Aries, is at odds with the emotional manipulation you're capable of with Lilith in Cancer. This can lead to some intense internal struggles. On one hand, you want to say it as it is, but on the other hand, you're tempted to use your emotional intelligence to manipulate the situation to your favor.

This aspect can also manifest in your relationships. You might find yourself being brutally honest one minute, then playing emotional games the next. It's like being a chef who can't decide whether to serve a spicy curry or a comforting soup, so ends up throwing everything into the pot. The result can be a confusing mix that leaves a strange aftertaste.

But don't despair. This aspect also gives you the potential to be an excellent negotiator. You have the ability to be direct and assertive, while also understanding and catering to people's emotional needs. It's about finding the right balance. Like a tightrope walker, you need to learn to tread the thin line between being too blunt and being overly manipulative.

So, are you ready to embrace the challenge? Can you harness the power of Mercury in Aries and Lilith in Cancer, and turn this square into your secret weapon? It's not going to be easy, but hey, who said life was a walk in the park?

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