What strategies can you devise to ensure that your assertiveness doesn't escalate into conflict?

Ah, the dance of Mars in Aries and Leo Ascendant. This is a relationship that can feel like a vibrant salsa - energetic, fiery and a little spicy. Mars in Aries, Person1, you bring a direct, assertive energy to the relationship. You're all about action, not just talk. Leo Ascendant, Person2, your presence is magnetic, with a natural flair for the dramatic. You light up a room simply by entering it.

However, the square aspect between your planets suggests a certain friction. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it does add an interesting layer to your relationship dynamic. Your energies can sometimes clash, like two leading dancers trying to lead at the same time. Person1, your assertiveness can come across as aggression to Person2, whose Leo Ascendant craves appreciation and respect. On the flip side, Person2, your desire to be in the spotlight might feel like a threat to Person1, who values independence and a certain level of control.

But don't fret, this aspect also has its benefits. It can push both of you to assert yourselves in ways you might not have otherwise. Person1, your Mars in Aries can inspire Person2 to be more assertive and less concerned with others' opinions. And Person2, your Leo Ascendant can teach Person1 the value of charisma and the joy of being appreciated by others.

This is more of a salsa dance than a boxing match. It's about finding a rhythm together, not trying to outdo each other. The key is to recognize when to lead and when to follow. It's about taking turns, respecting each other's individual styles, and, most importantly, enjoying the dance.

Remember that every dance has its missteps. It's how you recover from them that truly defines your performance. When the fiery energies of Mars in Aries and Leo Ascendant clash, can you find a way to turn that into a passionate tango instead of a heated argument?

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