How will you ensure that your shared ideals don't overshadow the practical needs of your relationship?

When Neptune in Sagittarius squares the Ascendant in Libra in your composite chart, the blending of your energies presents a fascinating dance of idealism and harmony. You're like two artists trying to paint on the same canvas, each with a wildly different perspective on what the final masterpiece should look like. Neptune's dreamy, expansive qualities in Sagittarius inspire grand visions and a shared thirst for truth, but can also lead to a collective tendency to gloss over the finer details of reality. Meanwhile, the Ascendant in Libra seeks balance and partnership, yearning for an equilibrium that Neptune's fog can sometimes disrupt.

You often find yourselves in a tug-of-war between the desire for an idealistic adventure and the necessity of maintaining equilibrium in your relationship. The square aspect is notorious for creating friction, and in your case, it may manifest as a struggle to reconcile your shared dreams with the practicalities of your partnership. You might romanticize each other or the relationship, projecting traits onto each other that are more fiction than fact. This Neptunian influence can be both alluring and deceptive, leading you on a merry chase after rainbows that may or may not have a pot of gold at the end.

Communication may sometimes feel like trying to speak through a thick fog, where intentions get lost and misunderstandings abound. You may find that your shared idealism is a double-edged sword, giving you a powerful bond but also leaving you vulnerable to disillusionment when reality falls short of your collective fantasies. It's not all smoke and mirrors, though. This aspect also gifts you with a shared compassion and a deep, if sometimes elusive, connection that can feel quite magical.

The key to navigating this square is to find a way to ground your ideals in the reality of your relationship. Embrace the creativity and spirituality that Neptune bestows, but also remember to check in with each other to ensure that your feet are still on solid ground. The balance that Libra's influence seeks is not out of reach; it simply requires a conscious effort to align your dreams with the world as it is, not just as you wish it to be.

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