As Venus transits in Cancer, it squares your composite Lilith in Aries, suggesting an intense period of evolution in your relationship dynamics. Venus in Cancer typically emphasizes nurturing and emotional bonding but squaring Lilith introduces friction, exposing secretive aspects or suppressed desires in your relationship. It might bring up concealed feelings or insecurities from the past, challenging you to address these issues head-on.

With Lilith in Aries in your composite chart, you have a fiery, passionate dynamic, but also a tendency for impulsiveness or selfishness to creep in. Underneath these tendencies lurk a fear of losing autonomy or individualism, presenting a conflict with Venus's need for unity and security in Cancer. The paradox of togetherness and separateness will be a dominant theme.

Venus squaring composite Lilith might put you in situations where compromising feels forced or unnatural. You might even feel that your bond is conflicting with your individual ambitions. It's a call to give space to one another's independent identities without extinguishing the flame of unity that has been painstakingly built.

When confrontations arise, take a step back and consider the roots of these clashes. Start meaningful dialogues about your fears and expectations, and be open to your partner sharing theirs. Harmony lies within allowing the other to grow, without making them feel smothered or controlled. This period provides a golden opportunity to redefine the role of freedom and independence in your relationship.

The strength of your bond will be measured by your ability to say 'I need my space' without sparking insecurity and 'I need you' without denying your unique self. This transit is a challenge, but also a path to a more authentic, resilient bond that embraces both unity and individualism gracefully.

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