As Chiron transits through the stern sign of Capricorn, you may find yourselves encountering considerable challenges related to authority, order, and structure within your relationship. This phase exposes the pain that emerges from the tension between rigidity and flexibility, potentially manifesting in conflicts arising from an unbalance in power dynamics, or the struggle to establish an effective relationship structure. On the other hand, this transit offers a unique opportunity for healing - addressing these issues constructively can lead to profound transformation.

The square aspect with your composite Lilith in Libra intensifies this dynamic. Lilith symbolizes raw, unapologetic individuality and, finding its expression in the harmonious and partnership-oriented sign of Libra, highlights the core tension of your relationship. Are you accepting and valuing each other's individuality, giving it space to learn, grow, and diversify, while also maintaining a vibrant together-tale? Or is there an overpowering urge to suppress differences to ensure harmonious co-existence, thus sparking resentment and emotional distress?

Possibly, power struggles surfacing during this time will revolve around the struggle to balance individual identity versus shared identity. It's crucial to understand that assertive individuality and a harmonious relationship are not mutually exclusive. Use the transformative power of Chiron to heal these wounds. This may involve deep conversations, reevaluating your mutual needs, and perhaps even seeking external guidance, like therapy.

Finally, this phase brings a reminder of the enormous potential you both hold. While Chiron unveils the wounds demanding healing, it also reveals where your greatest strength may lie. Ironically, the deepest wounds often become the Most Sacred Medicine. If you allow Lilith's raw intensity to challenge the way you've been building your relationship, new foundations can arise, built on mutual respect, individual space, and true harmony.

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