During this transit of Pluto in Capricorn quincunxing your composite Lilith in Virgo, you both might experience a profound restructuring in the way you accommodate power struggles and face the shadow aspects within your relationship. This cosmic alignment is such that it could unveil deeply rooted issues, throwing light on what has been hidden or suppressed.

Virgo Lilith in the composite chart indicates a penchant for intellectual and analytical dissection in the relational dynamics. Your shared Virgo Lilith may foster a tendency to over-analyze each other's flaws leading to regular conflicts. The archetype of Lilith in Virgo could represent a constant striving for perfection that could put undue pressure on both of you.

With Pluto's transformative energy in austere Capricorn, expect to find key power dynamics between you under the microscope. When Pluto forms a quincunx to your Lilith, it's urging for an adjustment, a transformation aimed to regain balance. It necessitates outgrowing old behavior patterns and a reassessment of deeply seeded fears and anxieties.

For instance, this might play out in aspects of day-to-day life where you may find comfort zones eroding. Minor arguments around mundane routines could suddenly unravel deeper issues. The person who usually takes charge in planning the daily chores might feel dominated, stirring up the Pluto energy of control and power struggle.

Adapting to this energy can turn the potential conflict into a powerful catalyst. Resist focusing on petty issues or desiring unrealistic perfection. Concentrate on the essentials that have worked well in your relationship and try to maximize these attributes. This might involve understanding that neither of you is perfect and re-shaping your mutual expectations towards acceptance, understanding, and emotional adaptability to the flaws and strengths of each other. This celestial shift can become an opportunity to grow together as a stronger entity, having faced and healed the shadows within the relationship.

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