With Lilith currently making waves through Cancer, squaring off against your composite Mars in Pisces, your relationship is set to experience some deep, often unsettling waters. These astrological conditions stir the pot profoundly, influencing the ways you both express desires, confront conflicts, and manage your shared emotional landscape.

Lilith's energy in Cancer naturally brings to surface the darker side of nurturing and dependency within your bond. It pushes both of you to confront unresolved feelings related to caretaking and emotional security. You might find yourselves dealing with moody undercurrents or emotional outbursts that seem to come from nowhere-well, not nowhere exactly, more like the hidden depths of what you usually don't voice to keep the peace.

Meanwhile, Mars in Pisces adds an extra layer of complexity. It lends a passive-aggressive flavor to conflicts. You might notice an increase in he-said-she-said, or perhaps wonder why suddenly everything feels like a subtle power play during a dinner date. Mars in Pisces wants to act, but often ends up reflecting, which can be confusing when trying to assert oneself or pursue desires directly. With Lilith squaring this Mars, these tendencies could result in acts of martyrdom or victimhood playing out in your relationship drama-script optional.

This transit requires patience and a sturdy emotional dive suit. It's a perfect time to examine what emotional needs you aren't getting met and why you might be harboring resentment. After all, these intense Lilith transits don't come to disrupt just for the sake of disruption but rather to reveal deeper truths and hidden fractures.

What can you do? Embrace the chaos but also engage with it constructively. This isn't just about surviving a storm but learning how to dance in the rain, even if you step on each other's toes occasionally. Open communication will be your umbrella-use it wisely. Confront these fiery feelings together, and you may find your relationship not only survives but thrives with renewed strength and understanding.

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