With Lilith transiting in Virgo sextile your composite Mars in Libra, your relationship is entering a phase where the dynamic between autonomy and cooperation is highlighted. This transit emphasizes a refinement of energy, urging you to look critically at the aspects of your relationship that involve partnership, conflict, and the balance of power between you.

Lilith's energy in Virgo brings a critical edge, encouraging you to analyze the details of how you assert yourselves both as individuals and as a couple. There might be a growing awareness of imperfections or a desire to improve how you manage conflicts or disagreements. This isn't about blame but about finding practical solutions that can improve your day-to-day interactions.

Mars in Libra, on the other hand, lends its energy towards harmony and balance but sometimes at the cost of avoiding necessary confrontations. The sextile from Lilith challenges this by pushing for a more forthright approach to handling issues. It prompts an exploration of deeper desires or unresolved conflicts, urging you to assert needs with clarity and diplomacy.

This transit can also enhance your mutual understanding by bringing to light undercurrents that have perhaps been ignored or suppressed. Exploring these might not be comfortable but can be immensely enriching. The key is in how you handle these revelations. Lilith invites you to face these challenges head-on, not with criticism or virulence, but with an aim towards healing and improvement.

Additionally, this configuration might influence your external interactions. In social or work environments, you may find yourselves more willing to take stands on issues you care about, supported by a detailed and methodical approach typical of Virgo, combined with the Libran flair for cooperation and fairness.

Embrace this period as an opportunity for growth. Each challenge faced together can strengthen the fabric of your relationship, making it more resilient and adaptive to the necessities of real growth and partnership.

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